Wednesday, March 24, 2010

Your Bishop - receiving Priesthood direction about your Ward RS Meetings


We were touched as we visited recently with Jeanne Maw, president of the 3rd Ward, about the specific inspiration their Bishop - Bishop Porter - has received for the sisters of their ward.  It is exactly the type of relationship that was described by Sister Julie Beck in the September 2009 General RS Meeting (see specific references at the end of this post...)  Since they have followed his counsel, the attendance at their meetings has been amazing, and sisters are participating that rarely attended before.


Jeanne shared this with us...


"Bishop Porter told me he attended the training meeting with Sister Sweat right after last General Conference and during that he said he felt very inspired that our sisters in our ward needed to connect and uplift, edify and instruct each other.  So he said he thought a simple dinner each month would be great.  (this is the part where he messed up, our sisters never do anything "simple"!!!)  He also had the idea that each cul de sac within our ward boundaries would take a turn at furnishing the dinner.  He gave us $50/month, but later upped it to $75.  Honestly, when he told me this plan I thought he was nuts!  But now I can see how inspired he truly was."


From Sister Beck...


Under the direction of the bishop, the ward Relief Society presidency can use these meetings to address spiritual and temporal needs of individuals and families in the ward and to strengthen sisterhood and unity.

The ward Relief Society president oversees all Relief Society meetings. As part of this responsibility, she counsels regularly with the bishop regarding how these meetings can help meet the needs of individuals and families in the ward.


The Relief Society presidency prayerfully considers how often they should hold Relief Society meetings during the week and where they should hold them. They then make a recommendation to the bishop, taking into consideration the time commitments of sisters, family circumstances, travel distance and cost, financial cost to the ward, safety, and other local circumstances.


Relief Society leaders prayerfully counsel together about the topics that will strengthen sisters and their families and about the best ways to teach those topics. The Relief Society president ensures that these plans are approved by the bishop



Every bishop has the responsibility for his specific ward. Each ward Relief Society president has a calling to assist one bishop. Each bishop and Relief Society presidency have had hands laid on their heads to receive inspiration for their particular responsibilities and not for any other ward or group of Relief Society sisters.


If we work with this understanding, we will seek revelation and work in companionship with a bishop to fulfill the purposes of Relief Society in our own wards.



"Purses" - two wards using the same theme in different ways...

We've been honored as a Stake RS Presidency to be able to attend some of the birthday celebrations throughout the River Stake.  We would love to spotlight each ward, and invite you to send us an email giving us details to share with everyone who takes the time to check this site...

Two of our wards (the 3rd & the 4th) used the "Purse" theme that is so versatile.

The 4th Ward put the "Purse-onal" spin on the theme.


Each table was decorated with a large centerpiece made from cardboard die-cut purses stuffed with tissue, confetti, etc...  Each place setting included a tiny die-cut purse with a treat inside.  (Look closely at the background of the photos below for the decorations...)


A dinner of chicken croissants & salad was served - with birthday cake (of course!)


For the program after dinner, sisters spoke on different types of purses.  A diaper bag, backpack, prom purse, and temple bag.


They related their purse to times in their lives when values were developed  relating to Relief Society and how it helped influence them at that particular age.


Before the evening ended, sisters cleaned out their purses to compete in some purse-related games.



The 3rd Ward's theme was "Purse-suit of Happiness"  I asked Jeanne Maw, their president, to describe what went on at their Birthday Party.  She will be getting me photos and additional information that I will add in the next few days.  They had a delicious meal, and had over seventy sisters attend - a record!  (Check the next post for Bishop Porter's inspired direction in the planning of their midweek RS meetings)

"There were, as you know, purses on each table beautifully decorated.  


The three sisters who spoke were Valerie Broadbent, who talked of the things in her purse that remind her of how she should act.  She also talked about her three small children and her diaper bag and how that is her purse-suit of happiness right now.  


Next was Maggie Wilde, who is not a member of the Church.  She is a dear friend and neighbor who has been suffering with cancer for the past few years.  She is cancer-free at the moment, though!  She talked about the things in her purse that make her happy, such as photos of her twin grandbabies and her children.  


Last was Robyn Smith who talked about the happiness she finds as she fulfills her service mission in the county jail teaching the female inmates gospel principles.  


I felt like the messages were beautifully planned to reach every sister and from the comments I've heard since I think everyone had a fabulous time!"

Friday, March 12, 2010

Ten Virgins, Ten Stories - 10th Ward RS Birthday

The 10th ward presented a wonderful musical parable (written by Emily Freeman) on Tuesday, March 9th in the Stake Center.  Evelyn Stallings & her presidency & board - what a spiritual night.

Patti Davies was the director, with many others in the ward assisting.  When we walked into the chapel that night, the spirit was reverent and quiet - a perfect setting for such a spiritual feast.  Costumes, stage setup, lighting, etc... were just amazing.  The entire ward appeared to be involved - from the High Priests in charge of the Nursery to all those who decorated - it was so well done!

The cast included Sandy Clifford (narrator), Marialice Nielson (Eliana), Angella Hutchings (Ashira), Val Schilling (Dina), Nedra Sproul (Nava), Karen Lonsdale (Gabriella), Patti Davies (Adi), Emma Hutchings (Liraz), Amanda Richmond (Malka), Kris Quinn (Leora), and Pattie Briggs (Jessa).

Following the presentation in the chapel was a wedding feast in the cultural hall.


(For more information - the BYU Bookstore carries the CD, script, etc...  Here is a brief description:)

Based on Emily Freeman's bestselling book of the same title, this stirring album is a musical journey through the ever-relevant parable of the ten virgins. Featuring various artists, including Hilary Weeks, Jenny Phillips, and Cherie Call, The Ten Virgins presents songs and narration inspired by the individual stories of each virgin. Listeners will relate to the characters and their lives and will find encouragement to fill their own lamps daily. With a script, performance tracks, and sheet music available, The Ten Virgins can easily be presented at group activities and programs.

Includes the following tracks:

The Shopkeeper on the Hill by April Meservy
What I Need (Eliana's Song) by Emily Castleton
Nothing Matters More (Ashira's Song) by Jenny Phillips
Until (Dina's Song) by Hilary Weeks
Easy to Forget (Nava's Song) by Krista Q. Maurer
More (Gabriella's & Adi's Song) by Kathryn Tuttle & Kerilyn Johnson
Time Goes By (Liraz's Song) by Cherie Call
Magnificent Work of Art (Malka's Song) by Tamara McFadden
Lantern Light (Leora's Song) by Mindy Gledhill
Only One (Jessa's Song) by Jessie Clark Funk
The Coming of the Bridegroom by April Meservy
When He Comes for Me by The Ten Virgins Ensemble

Saturday, February 6, 2010

4th Ward Service Auction


The 4th Ward had a fun Relief Society meeting the night of February 3rd.  Debbie Maynard had spoken to one of the other wards about theirs - which has become a tradition they look forward to.  She was glad they shared their ideas, and was happy with how it turned out.

The first thing everyone was expected to do was to fill out a card with information on the service they were willing to provide.  The cards were placed in a large clear jar.


After opening the meeting with prayer, Claire Chance (RS Meeting Coordinator) conducted a quiz that determined the number of points everyone could use to bid in the auction a little later.  The questions were really creative and fun - everyone was able to chalk up a bunch of points.  Here are a few sample questions they used (they were all in good fun...)

Did you marry off your youngest child this year?  (If so - give yourself 25 points)
Have you had chocolate in any form today?  (If so - give yourself 5 points)

The auction was then begun.  Using the points tallied up on each person's quiz, they were able to bid on each item as it was described.  A recorder wrote everyone's service and who purchased it.  The cards were then distributed to both the one who donated the service, as well as the person who won.


There were some fantastic services given.  Here are just a few...

One loaf of fresh, homebaked wheat bread delivered each week for ten weeks.
A weekend at a family's beautiful cabin for the purchaser's immediate family.
A lunch date.
Gift baskets (to keep or give away) for Valentine's, birthdays, anniversary, etc...
Sewing instruction for young children.
Tutoring in grades 1-6.
Cinnamon rolls.
Handmade accessories for clothing.

A yummy Hot Chocolate Bar was set up and the sisters were able to bring a cup of hot chocolate back to their tables to enjoy as the bidding went on.  (This is a photo found on the web - it was similar to the one that evening)



Debbie mentioned at the conclusion of the evening that it almost requires a "trial run" the first year so the sisters become familiar with it, and begin to look forward to it the next year.  It also gives them time to think of a service they can offer the next year.

Tuesday, February 2, 2010

Linking Presidency Lessons & RS Monthly Meetings - idea from the 7th Ward...

We had a wonderful ward conference with the 7th Ward a few weeks ago, and were delighted to visit with their presidency about a new idea they are implementing this year.  Their President (Jolynne Ward) reminded us of the statement by Sister Beck that is so timely...

"If meetings are not strengthening the faith of the sisters - why are they being held?"

Their ward purpose this coming year is "To Strengthen Faith & Families"

Every presidency lesson focuses on one way they can accomplish this.

Their monthly RS meetings (mid-week) support what was taught on that first Sunday Presidency lesson.

They agreed to share their year's outline with us...



2010 Relief Society 7th Presidency Messages and Activities
(Fast Sundays)
7th ward Purpose: To strengthen faith and families.

  1. Strengthen Marriage, Families and homes (importance of FHE, personal and family prayers, praying with our spouse) Taught by presidency member or sister.
Activity – Reading the book “The Peacegiver” Story of the Atonement healing a marriage. Meeting at the end of the month to discuss book and refreshments.

  1. Increase in Faith and Personal righteousness (personal revelation)
      Taught by presidency member or sister.
Activity – Temple Day and Luncheon.

  1. Serve the Lord and his children  (charitable service/welfare).
         Taught by presidency member or sister.
Activity- RS Birthday dinner night combined with Humanitarian Project.

  1. Increase in sisterhood and unity (connecting through visiting teaching and serving together) Taught by presidency member or sister.
Activity – Visiting Teaching Night - interviews, message & refreshments

  1. Sharing the Gospel. Taught by Missionary Moms or Women who have served missions (sharing a personal spiritual experience and testimonies from the missionaries serving in our ward)
Activity - Missionary Mom Luncheon

  1. Provident Living and Spiritual and Temporal self-reliance (Emergency Preparedness, Food Storage) Taught by Jennifer Robinson (January visiting teaching message in Ensign)
Activity – Ward Family night, centered around ideas that are fun and in-expensive. (Games, Pizza)

  1. Temple and Family history  Taught by presidency member or sister.
Activity – Temple day and luncheon or desserts.

  1. Magnifying our callings (in the church and as wives and mothers)
Taught by presidency member or sister.
Activity – Picnic at the Park (Bring your own picnic Mom’s and kids)

  1. Strengthening the Priesthood (support and understanding our roll)
Taught by presidency member or sister.
Activity – An evening with husbands… games, hot chocolate bar, sweet rolls.

  1. Increasing our understanding of the Atonement Taught by presidency member or sister.
Activity – Testament Movie and popcorn.  Moms with Young Women/ to be held in a sister’s basement.

  1. Increasing our knowledge (Personal scripture study, negative media and television shows) Taught by presidency member or sister.
Activity – book club month read a good uplifting book at the beginning of month meet to discuss the book at the end of month, book to be decided.

  1. Christmas Program  (Testimonies how basics have strengthened families and brought them closer to Christ.)
Activity – RS dinner and program

Wednesday, January 27, 2010

Birthday Celebration ideas...



Sisters - there are many websites out there containing ideas for Relief Society meetings - formerly "Enrichment".  We are not suggesting you use any of these - we are including them simply as a vehicle to "prime your pump" for ideas.   Each of our wards is unique - it's not necessary to use a "cookie cutter" approach to planning meetings.  


Elder Uchtdorf's talk entitled "Happiness, Your Heritage" in 2008 includes a statement to keep in mind as we plan meaningful, uplifting Relief Society Meetings...  (for his talk in it's entirety - click HERE)


"The desire to create is one of the deepest yearnings of the human soul. No matter our talents, education, backgrounds, or abilities, we each have an inherent wish to create something that did not exist before".




We wish you success as you plan meetings that are as unique as your ward!


Included below are a few ideas found on the LDS Living website...




Relief Society Birthday
by Kate Ensign-Lewis

On March 17th, the Relief Society celebrates its 166th birthday, making it one of the world’s oldest women’s organizations. It is also the world’s largest women’s organization, with five and a half million sisters in 170 countries. If you’re planning a Relief Society celebration in your ward or branch, we’re got some great ideas to help strengthen testimonies as well as strengthen bonds between Relief Society sisters.




A Night of Relief Society History

Relief Society Jeopardy
Teach your sisters more about the mission of Relief Society by reviewing its roots. A fun way to teach the sisters the history of the organization is to play Relief Society Jeopardy. Depending on how competitive your sisters are, divide the group into teams, or allow sisters to yell out their answers freely. Create questions that bear some significance to Relief Society––questions concerning scriptures that are significant to Relief Society, hymns that have significant Relief Society history, trivia about Relief Society leaders, or other general trivia. Use this game in conjunction with a dinner and message about the growing mission of Relief Society through time.
Video of the General Relief Society Meeting of 2005
Another way to highlight Relief Society history is to share the video that was shown during the General Relief Society Meeting of 2005. This video beautifully explains the reason for organizing the Relief Society and the power behind the organization. After watching the video, invite a priesthood leader to share some statements Joseph Smith made about the purpose and potential of the Relief Society. Gather some statements from the brethren in the ward on how the Relief Society contributes to the purposes of the gospel. Share them and lead a discussion exploring what the sisters can do to help the Relief Society live up to this great potential.

Service Projects

Service projects are not just for the ward’s youth. After all, the Relief Society’s motto is “Charity Never Faileth,” and what better way can you celebrate the anniversary of its organization than by answering its call to serve?
Habitat for Humanity
One of the best-known service organizations specializing in large service projects is Habitat for Humanity, an organization that builds homes for families in need. Habitat for Humanity even has a specialized program for girls and women, called Women Build. With this specialized program, crews of women and girls build the homes, so you can even involve the ward’s Young Women in the celebration event. If you would rather not call on the women of your ward to put in labor alone, involve the entire ward in a Relief-Society–sponsored Habitat for Humanity project, and everyone can participate in the legacy of Relief Society. Go to habitat.org to find other specialized programs, local affiliates, and service opportunities.
Deseret Industries Projects
You can also find ideas for individual service projects from a local Deseret Industries; each DI should have an office dedicated to humanitarian aid. In these offices, you can find examples of needed items, like knitted bandages for lepers, home-made picture books for children around the world, and colorful wall hangings to give visual stimulation to children in orphanages. You can also schedule evenings for sisters to come in and work on on-site projects, such as assembling school kits.
Church Humanitarian Aid
The Church’s website has several ideas for service under Humanitarian Service and the “How Can I help?” link. Ideas include smaller and larger projects.
After the big event, or on the day you have set for sisters to turn in their contributions, have a luncheon, followed by birthday cake, and share your experiences of the event. Combining your ward’s birthday celebration with a special service event truly is a wonderful opportunity to illustrate the mission of the Relief Society.

Themed Birthday Parties and Programs

The Relief Society Birthday celebration can also be just that: a party. But include in your celebration more than birthday cakes; create a theme that inspires discussion and reflection. Here are some thoughts:
Months of the year
Celebrate the birthdays of your sisters. Decorate each table with a centerpiece that represents a certain month of the year. Ask sisters to sit at the table that represents the month they were born in. Serve dinner and have a speaker deliver a message on how to remember the Relief Society mission all year long by serving the sisters around us. This gives sisters a great opportunity to learn more about sisters they don’t normally spend time with; it can also be a good occasion to discuss the blessings of visiting teaching.
Of Royal Birth
Emphasize the value of each Relief Society sister by organizing a program that reminds them of their royal heritage as daughters of God. Remind them of their divine purpose as members of Relief Society, as women, and as individuals. Ask a leader or sister to speak on divine purpose, or organize a skit that highlights milestones of life and the guidance Heavenly Father promises. You might even include daughters as part of the program. You can find an already-compiled program at theideadoor.com/skits—complete with script and music to use.
Celebrate Femininity and Nurturing
Brainstorm topics for four classes, two on femininity and two on nurturing. On a Sunday leading up to the celebration, ask the sisters to sign up for two classes; schedule the classes in such a way that the sisters attend one class on each subject. Possible class subjects for nurturing classes include: first aid/CPR training or building relationships with friends and family. Possible topics for femininity classes are: creating time for self-improvement (physical, educational, etc.) or a basic art class (drawing, watercolor, or sculpture). Make these classes twenty minutes each, and then come back together for dinner. This makes for roughly a two-hour evening.
A Worldwide Sisterhood
Plan a potluck dinner where everyone brings an international dish or family recipe to share. Decorate each table with flags and souvenirs from different countries. For the program, organize a gala where people from different countries perform traditional ceremonies or tell folk tales from that country. After dinner and the program, ask the Relief Society president or bishop to address the sisters on how our differences bless our lives and further the work of the Relief Society. Break a piñata filled with handouts at the end!
Remember, we celebrate the organization of the Relief Society to remind the sisters of the divine mission of the Relief Society, and to remind them of the divine mission of each sister. Whether you use these suggestions or not, be sure that each sister leaves your celebration with a renewed sense of purpose as a sister in this inspired organization and as a daughter of God.


Relief Society Quiz - fun icebreaker idea for RS Birthday...

It's nice to have an activity for your sisters to work on together as they begin to gather at an event.  This is a quiz that may be fun to have on the tables as sisters sit down for the evening.

*Forgive the crazy "formatting"  - as it was taken off another RS blog/website and I couldn't adjust it...  The questions are in bold italic, and the answers are in bold (no italic).

(I have this saved as a word document as well as a PDF - please leave a comment, or send me an email and I'll send it to you so you can adjust it to what you need...)



1.  What was the first auxillary organization in the Church?
Priesthood    Relief Society
2.  What is the Relief Society Motto?
Home, Family & Personal Enrichment   Charity Never Faileth    Cleanliness is Next to Godliness
3.  Who was the longest serving General RS President?
Belle S. Spafford  Eliza R. Snow  Emma Smith
4.  The Relief Society is the oldest and largest women’s organization in the world.  What date was it officially organized?
Mar 20, 1832   Mar 17, 1840  Mar 17, 1842  Mar 20, 1842
5.  Who was the first General Relief Society President?
Emma Smith   Barbara B. Smith   Eliza R. Snow
6.  The RS was organized under the direction of which President of the Church?
Joseph Smith  Brigham Young  Wilford Woodruff
7.  Who was the General RS President in the Susquicentennial Year?
Amy Brown Lyman    Barbara B. Smith    Elaine L. Jack
8.  Who was the General RS President during the centennial celebration in 1942?
Amy Brown Lyman    Belle Spafford    Barbara B. Smith
9.  During the drought of 1879 the RS made an interest free loan to the church.  What was it they loaned interest free?
$20,000 cash    Garden seed for the next spring’s planting   30,000 bushels of wheat
10.  During World War 1 (1917-1919) the Red Cross had an approximate membership of 50,000 women in the US.  Of that number, approximately how many were also members of the RS?
35,000    42,000    47,000
11.  Who is the current General RS President?
Julie B. Beck    Amy Brown Lyman    Bonnie D. Parkin
12.  How many hymns did Eliza R. Snow write in the current hymn book?
10     12     14
13.  Select three of the hymns written by Eliza R. Snow.
How Great the Wisdom and the Love; Truth Reflects Upon Our Senses; O My Father
In Our Lovely Deseret; Hold to the Rod; Silent Night
I am a Child of God; Count Your Blessings; Choose the Right

14.  Who was the mother of Eliza R. Snow?
Emma Smith
Rosetta Leonora Pettibone (Snow)
Barbara B. Smith
15.  How long did it take to write the Relief Society Declaration?
3 hours
3 days
3 months
3 years
16.  Which General Relief Society President threatened to leave her husband because he had a bar in the house?
Belle S. Spafford
Amy Brown Lyman
Emma Smith
17.  On June 3, 1918, why did the President of the United States, Heber Hoover, write a letter of appreciation to the church?
For the copper donated from the Salt Lake copper mine for the war effort
For the contribution by the Church and Relief Society in the purchase of war bonds
For the contribution of wheat and flour for war use
18.  How many sisters were admitted as members when the Relief Society was founded?
14
18
26
34
19.  Which Relief Society President was also the president of the National Council of Women?
Rosetta Leonora Pettibone (Snow)
Belle Spafford
Elaine L. Jack
20.  What General Relief Society President was also the chairman of the Childhood and Family Committee of the National Council of Women?
Barbara B. Smith
Amy Brown Lyman
Bonnie D. Parkin
21.  When did the Visiting Teaching program begin?
1843
1860
1943
1960
22.  When was the Relief Society Building dedicated?
1946
1951
1956
1961
23.  How long after the establishment of the church did Emma Smith make a selection of hymns for the church?
3 hours
3 days
3 months
3 years
24.  Which General Relief Society president enjoyed cruising on the steamer "Maid of the Iowa" with her husband?
Emma Smith
Eliza R. Snow
Barbara B. Smith
25.  Who are the "Singing Mothers"?
Emma Smith and her two Counselors
Eliza R. Snow and her two Counselors
Combined Relief Society Choirs
26.  Which of the following is a program from which the Relief Society has never been responsible for:
Church Compassionate and Welfare Services
Educational Program
Nurse Training
Church Building and Construction
Temple and Burial Clothing Departments
27.  What was the actual official name of the Relief Society when it was first organized in 1842?
The Benevolent Society of Nauvoo
The Female Relief Society of Nauvoo
The Benevolent Relief Society Sisterhood of Nauvoo
28.  What circumstances initiated the organization of the Relief Society? A desire of the sisters to:
Unite in building work clothes for those working on the temple
Unite and bring to the attention of the brethren the mess left after Church and Priesthood meetings
Get out of the house and have a social club for activities
29.  Which General Relief Society President postponed and eventually canceled the grand centennial Relief Society Celebration titled "Woman’s Century of Light"?
Belle S. Spafford
Amy Lyman
Eliza R. Snow



Tuesday, January 26, 2010

Sewing Night with Young Women...

I thought this idea had great possibilities...  One of our responsibilities in the Relief Society is to provide opportunities for the Young Women to feel comfortable being with us in a Relief Society meeting setting.   In many wards, the Young Women are invited in monthly for opening exercises.

Mother/Daughter nights aren't uncommon, but it can be awkward with the young women whose mothers aren't available, or not very willing to come with their daughters.

If you have "transition" in your radar as a ward RS presidency, you might consider combining a Young Women activity with a Relief Society meeting one evening.  It may require you to change your night to THEIR night - but good things can result.

Young women would be encircled into Relief Society for just one evening - participating in an activity that all women (not just their mothers) are there to enjoy with them.

Aprons - especially "retro" aprons - are everywhere right now.  There are many free patterns available online, and you may have sisters in your ward who have patterns they would be willing to share.





What about the fabric you ask?  Think of how many of us have fabric stashed away from years ago - probably a lot of it would fit into the "retro" category!  Instead of donating it to charity, it would save on the cost of a project for yourself or one of these young women.

Here is a link that has just a few of the free online patterns out there.

free online pattern link

Click on the links at the bottom of their site for even more ideas.  Aprons can be made from a myriad of inexpensive items - dish towels, dinner napkins, old tablecloths, pillowcases - you won't believe the possibilities.

Friday, January 22, 2010

Time For Surveys... (Thanks 5th Ward!)






Jennie Bennett brought this to our attention, as the 5th Ward (Laurie Reeve's presidency) has distributed a similar survey (via their RS email list - great idea!) to their sisters.   Using email doesn't capture everyone, but it is an increasingly efficient way to communicate (and save paper)

For a "sample" survey (that I tinkered around with for fun)  - click on the link at the right column... or HERE.

It is easy to use this service (surveymonkey.com) to formulate your own survey at no charge...

What a great time of year to survey your sisters and turn over a new leaf (so-to-speak!).

With the new directives from our RS General Board - we are counseled to receive inspiration as a RS presidency, working together with the Priesthood (our good Bishops).

There are countless ways to get input from your sisters (surveys, visiting teachers, personal conversations, utilizing your meeting "committee", etc...)

Once you have this feedback, it's time to "go to our knees, go to the temple, and go to the Lord" - as Sister Beck has advised us.



Chicken Soup for River 8th Ward - terrific start for a New Year...



Thanks to Myrl Breinholt for sharing this idea for their January kick-off to the New Year.
Let us know how it went Myrl!



"Conversation Cafe" - fun idea from the 3rd Ward...


At the beginning of a new year - we are all looking for ideas to bring the sisters together to enjoy each other's company after the hectic holidays.   This was passed on to us by Jeanne Maw - 3rd Ward RS President.  
Thanks Jeanne!





We had a really great RS Meeting on the 13th.  As you know, we did a Conversation Cafe.  As you came in, you were seated at a table for four.  Each table was numbered.  Each place setting had a menu of things to talk about and a list of the dinner courses for the evening.

The first was the "Whine List" and we talked about things that are our pet peeves. Sparkling cranberry juice was served along with chips and salsa.   Each table also had a vase of brightly colored flowers in the middle and each flower had a number.   After about 10 or 15 minutes each person selected a flower which had on it a number and then moved to the table with that number - they didn't keep the flower, just checked the number on it)

The second course was soup and we talked about things that others did for us that touched our hearts and made us feel the warmth of the spirit.

The next course was the main course, chicken, beef or cheese enchiladas.  And the last course was dessert which was cookies.

I can't remember the topic of conversation for the last two courses!  I guess it can be whatever you want it to be!

Anyway, we moved from table to table for each course so we were able to mingle with a lot of different people.  We had two non-member neighbors in attendance, who also helped with the food!!

At the end, our cute leader talked about our connection with each other and left us with a cute quote,: "Let us remember thqt our earthly activities have a spiritual base and a celestial  conclusion."

We had a lot of really good comments and felt like it was very successful!  Hope others will enjoy it too!

Thanks,
Jeanne Maw

Friday, July 24, 2009

Group Activity Ideas

Activity Group ideas

Here are some ideas for Activity Groups that might meet weekly or monthly. This was found on another Relief Society blog (HERE): If you like to use "titles" for your activities - here are some possibilities...

Pamper night: nails, feet, massage
Burn baby burn: computers and cd's
Angels among us: working closely with DI on projects
Sweet as Pie: making pies, pastries, etc
Celestial sisters: attend temple once a month
Eat your Wheaties: Food storage, recipes, organization, etc
It's Dirty work but someone's gotta do it: Housecleaning, tips, organization
Articles of Faith: memorize, tips to help children memorize, learn songs that go with them
Beach party/Spring Break: volleyball and light foods
Hooked on Reading: Book club- read and discussion
Share n' tear: Scrapbooking Blooming bulbs: gardening and yard work
Munch and Mingle: get together for lunch either at church, someone's home, or progressive dinner
Unfinished projects corner: self explanatory!
Blanket Brigade: making quilts...bring your own or come help others
One Dish Wonders: crock pot cooking
Ensign to the Nation: read and discuss current Ensign
Knead to Know Basics: bread making, rolls, specialty breads, etc
Tatt-a-tatt-tatt: crochet handkerchief
Cultural Night: productions at local theaters like symphony, plays, etc
Girls night out: go to a movie, dinner, sports, whatever with just the girls
American Idol: work on a talent or learn a new one
Tic Toc: Time management
Beyond the Pedigree Chart: writing your life history
Beauty shop Quartet: learn to sing or play an instrument
"me" time: What are my needs and how to make time for them
Quilting Bee
Park Pals - meet at parks with little ones to play while moms visit
Stroller stride - walk together while pushing the stroller

Sunday, July 12, 2009

"Economical" Cooking Class ideas...

Hi Sisters;

I found this recipe on an enrichment website. It might be a fun idea once school starts, summer ends, and winter is around the corner. Perhaps you could invite older sisters to contribute their recipes they remember from those infamous Depression days - maybe even ask them to help present, or do a little "intro" for the class (before the demo, etc...) It would even be fun (if your group is small enough) to do this in a home, allowing everyone to help prepare the meal to share at the conclusion.

Depression Era Recipes

Depression Era Recipes
Preparedness Helps

MAIN DISH - Poor Man's Soup

1 soup bone
1 cup dry beans
2 cup tomatoes
1 cup chopped celery
1 cup diced potatoes
1/2 cup rice
1/3 cup gound beef
1/3 cup chopped onion
salt and pepper
1/8 tsp basil
Soak beans over ight and drain.
Simmer soup bone in 8 qts of water for several house. Add drained beans and simmer for 45 minutes. Fry beef and onion. Add to soup along with remaining ingredients and simmer for one hour. Serve with bisquits.

BREAKFAST - Pancakes From Scratch

1 cup flour
1 tablespoon sugar
2 teaspoons baking powder
1/4 teaspoon salt
1 beaten egg
1 cup milk
2 tablespoons cooking oil
Stir tegther dry ingredients. Make a well and add wet ingredients. Mix til moistened. Cook on hot griddle or skillet.
Makes 8-10 starde sized pancakes.
Serve with Applesauce or homemade berry jam, jelly or syrup.

BREAD - Baking Powder Bisquits

2 cups flour
4 tsp. baking powder
1 tsp. salt
2 Tbls lard (shortening, butter etc.)
1 cup milk
Sift dry ingredients together. Cut in lard and add milk gradually. Mix to a smooth dough. Roll to 1/2 inch thickness. Cut with bisquit cutter (or cup). Place on cookie sheet. Bake in quick oven. (400* for 8-10 mins).

DESSERT - Vintage WW1 Eggless, Milkless, Butterless Cake

1 cup water
2 cups raisins (Opt)
1 tsp. cinnamon
1/2 tsp. cloves
1 cup brown sugar
1/3 cup lard (shortening)
1/4 tsp. nutmeg
1/4 tsp. salt
2 cups flour
1 tsp. baking soda
1/2 tsp. baking powder
Place water, raisins, cinnamon, cloves, brown sugar, lard (shortening), nutmeg and salt in a saucepan and mix. Place on heat and bring to a boil. Cook 3 minutes. Allow to cool, then sift together the flour, baking soda and baking powder. Stir into cooked mixture.Place in a greased loaf pan and bake at 350F for one hour.

Grandma's Brown Sugar Fudge

An old family recipe passed down for generations.

Ingredients
4 cups brown sugar, packed
1 (12 ounce) can evaporated milk
2 tablespoons butter
1 teaspoon vanilla

Directions
Combine brown sugar & milk in saucepan, and stir until the sugar begins to dissolve.
Cook over medium-high heat until mixture reaches the “soft ball” stage (about 235 degrees).
Remove from heat, and add butter & vanilla.
Mix until smooth & creamy. Fudge will lose its shine and feel somewhat gritty on the bottom of the pot.
Pour into buttered 9 x 13 glass pan.
Let partially set and cut into squares.

Friday, July 10, 2009

7th Ward Relief Society Meeting Ideas

Julie George (counselor in the 7th Ward) sent these ideas in:

Plans
from now till December:

We just had a Sisterhood and Salad in Heidi Martell's backyard.

We have a group called "Tapestry" coming in December for our Christmas Meeting.

We will have a craft meeting in the fall - our traditional Witches Night Out.

We have mid-month ideas of:

Playing baseball with the young women. (Great idea for YW Transition, don't you think?)

Hiking Ensign's Peak this fall after studying a different virtue each month for our presidency message.

Then we will post our flag with all of the virtues.

Thanks Julie! I'm sure she would be glad to "elaborate" on any of these if you have questions. (leave it in a comment and I'll forward it on to her...)

Pioneer Day is coming...

This is probably too MUCH too LATE, but maybe you can use this in your planning for next summer? I found this on the Visiting Teaching Tips blog (in the sidebar to the right...) Using some of these ideas in an enrichment activity might be a good lesson in "making do with what we have"...

Pioneer Recipes

To go to the links to find these pioneer recipes, you will need to copy and paste the link in the address bar. Enjoy your reading. Katie G.

You can find the following Pioneer Recipes by going to this link http://library.lds.org/nxt/gateway.dll/Magazines/Friend/1975.htm/friend%20july%201975.htm/pioneer%20recipes.htm?fn=document-frame.htm&f=templates&2.0

Buttermilk Doughnuts-“Pioneer Recipes,” Friend, July 1975, 40 (President Brignam Young enjoyed this pastry)
Apple Candy
Bread and Milk - President Wilford Woodruff often enjoyed this.
Old-Fashioned Muffins - Horseshoe Cookies
Johnnycake - A favorite dish of the Prophet Joseph Smith.
Washboard Cookies
Toasted Spicecake
Pioneer Hardtack
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Homemade Butter - I found this cute blog that shows the process for making homemade butter in a jar. go to http://crunchychickencooks.blogspot.com/2008/02/handmade-butter.html

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I found a cute cookbook that you can read portions of it online called "Log Cabin Cooking" and you can find it at this link http://books.google.com/books?id=B-RtAYTwJ1sC&dq=Pioneer+Recipes&printsec=frontcover&source=bl&ots=FGTRVaeAoK&sig=BZjRvHZf9UCAhzj4vs3qJXkQg5U&hl=en&ei=gf1QSoe5A4WosgPRp9CqDQ&sa=X&oi=book_result&ct=result&resnum=10

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Pioneer Soap
106 ounces rendered fat, or tallow, or combination of both
14 ounces lye
41 ounces cold water
NOTE - If you use rendered kitchen fat you may opt to add fragrance to minimize the cooking odors.

If you want a variety of other types of soap recipes go to http://waltonfeed.com/old/old/soap/soapreci.html

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You can find more of the Pioneer Recipes found below by going to this link: http://library.lds.org/nxt/gateway.dll/Magazines/Friend/1978.htm/friend%20july%201978.htm/pioneer%20recipes.htm?fn=document-frame.htm&f=templates&2.0

Honey Candy
Pioneer Lettuce Salad
Rice in Cream
Molasses Candy

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Even More Pioneer recipes found at this link: http://library.lds.org/nxt/gateway.dll/Magazines/Friend/1993.htm/friend%20july%201993.htm/kitchen%20krafts.htm?fn=document-frame.htm&f=templates&2.0

Nauvoo Ginger Cookies
Homemade Butter
Old-Fashioned Pickles

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Now if all these Pioneer recipes aren't enough for you, then go to the following link and you will find all kinds of recipes and even more fun things. thttp://waltonfeed.com/old/old/index.html

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Yet even some more recipes that you have not yet seen go to http://www.footnote.com/page/1782_mormon_pioneer_cooking/

Women to Women Service Project Idea

Hello Sisters;
I stumbled on this idea as I was browsing one of my favorite RS blogs... I thought it looked like it would have possibilities for an enrichment evening in a ward (or stake)... I found the idea on this blog... http://debbieraymond.blogspot.com/2009/04/blog-post_18.html

Thought this may be of help to get your creativity going...


This event started with our desire to have a Saturday of nice Relief Society service projects like quilts and baby bibs - easy things that everyone likes to do. We recruited a sister (I've blocked their names in case they don't appreciate this being "circulated") to be the project chairman and she had some fun plans. We went to the Humanitarian Center for materials and they offered us a huge project - not something cute like we had in mind, but a pilot program called Feminine Hygiene Kits. Our job was to make the reusable cloth sanitary pads and holders that would be included in a kit and sent to third world countries where women and teenage girls have no products like we have for their monthly period. We learned that the women end up staying at home and missing work and school during one week of every month. Several international relief agencies are working on ways to help with this problem. This Feminine Hygiene Kit is in a drawstring bag and includes four pair of underpants, 16 cloth sanitary pads, 4 holders for the pads, nail clippers and a ziplock baggie. Our assignment was to sew 800 holders and 1600 pads. At first I was overwhelmed and almost said no. We had a meeting and our food chairman for the event, Karen Wood, encouraged me that there would be no project more satisfying and fulfilling that helping other women in this regard. My counselors and chairman jumped in with enthusiasm and started advertising and recruiting help. Once we explained this project to women in our area, they got excited and eager to be part of it. We also made three quilts and eight 'hugs,' which I can't explain but I'll get a photo sometime soon.

Our food chairman and her committee fixed a beautiful brunch of roasted vegetable frittata; green salad with dressing, craisins, and sugared almonds; homemade whole wheat bread; homemade (yesterday by xxxx) strawberry jam; and an assortment of cookies and fruit. It was absolutely delicious. Everyone loved it and in between sewing or quilting, they enjoyed sitting and visiting over fabulously-prepared food.

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